I didn’t have a childhood like most others. My father was an alcoholic, and my mother had to work tirelessly to keep us afloat. I, too, worked during my school years, balancing responsibilities while studying. Half of my childhood was spent in other people’s houses because we didn’t have a permanent home. On top of that, I carried the responsibility of caring for my two younger sisters and constantly worried about our future.

Amid all this, I had to excel in education despite the odds. I never got the chance to play like other children. I never attended tuition classes, and most of my clothes were borrowed. There were times when we didn’t even have enough money to buy food, and at least once a week, we faced a financial crisis.

At one point, I entered a relationship, but it ended because my overwhelming responsibilities were too much for her to bear. For a long time, I felt unlucky, convinced that life was unfairly hard on me.

But today, as I reflect, I realize how far I’ve come. I am now an undergraduate with a strong GPA. I have a good job and a stable income. I’m supporting my family single-handedly. I’m not seeking a relationship, but I’m building friendships and connections every day. I can now buy new clothes and provide for my family. My life has transformed completely.

The same children who once seemed to have everything I lacked are now struggling to face the realities of life and the challenges of financial hardships. Looking back, I realize I am the blessed one.

Every difficulty I faced shaped me into someone strong. The hardships I endured forged me into someone who doesn’t fear life’s small challenges. I’ve learned the true value of money and understand how it can corrupt a person if not handled wisely. Life and the universe have taught me so much.

In summary, if you’re suffering right now, feel proud. You’re being forged into something extraordinary.